The Multi-Orgasmic Woman

She is not a myth. Women can have as many orgasms as she wants as often as she wants if only she will permit herself to do so. Many women base their ideas regarding sex and their bodies on outside influences. Since most men can have only one orgasm at a time, many women also assume that the same is true of them. It is not true.

What is true is that women have to learn how to orgasm. This is best done using masturbation to the point of orgasm. Women are born with all of the equipment and necessary circuits but those circuits are not activated since reproduction does not require orgasm. Partners can assist can until the circuits are activated nothing will happen. Women who have difficulty reaching orgasm should practice masturbating to orgasm as frequently as they can.

Many women think that by tensing their bodies and thinking hard they can force themselves to orgasm. No. Doing either will stop an orgasm from happening. To orgasm, a woman should instead imagine herself floating on an inflatable raft on ocean swells under the hot sun and a light warm breeze. Relax and let the ocean swells just roll in and out underneath her. No stress. No worries. All is right with the world. Think about nothing at all except how good this feels - again and again and again.

Orgasms are like ocean swells. They build. They slide along. They subside. Let them come. Permit them to roll on through you. Savor each one, small or large, in its turn as it comes. Enjoy the upwelling energy of each afterglow. Soon they all overlap and a woman enters a kind of nirvana, a fully aware but relaxed state where even the slightest breath will induce more orgasms.

Men can get very jealous.

Except the men who can assist a woman into this state. They walk around like they’re kings of the universe. And so they should for they are selflessly giving pleasure beyond what they themselves can usually achieve. No man can have as many orgasms as any woman. Men are simply not built that way.

To introduce women to being multi-orgasmic, a man has to both relax and arouse her. This is best done through body worship. Once she is relaxed and aroused, he can being bringing her to orgasm stimulating each ‘hotspot’ in turn. These ‘hotspots’ are the clitoris, the G-spot, the anterior fornix and the posterior fornix. Using every method he knows to begin in a little variety, assist her to orgasm before moving on to the next ‘hotspot’.

Should she need a rest in between orgasms, being a beginner so to speak, return to body worship. Gradually decrease the time between orgasms.

Some women become extremely sensitive after an orgasm. Instead of pleasure, they experience pain. This is actually a ‘false pain’. What is happening is her brain is not used to this new level of sensation and gets confused. The brain does not like being confused and wants this addition input to stop until the brain can sort it all out.

Give it time. Breathe calmly, deeply and relax through the pain if you have any. Let it go. On the other side are orgasms waiting their turn. Be assured that once breached, this ‘wall’ will no longer exist. Once you become multi-orgasmic, you will always be multi-orgasmic. From then on there will only be pleasure.

Cuddling afterwards is mandatory after a nirvana sex interlude. Wrap your partner into your big strong arms and bear hug her. Laugh, smile, and celebrate! Tell your partner never to hide from you again because you are now a king of the universe.